This was sent to me from a beautiful friend...
WHETHER SINGLE OR MARRIED, THIS IS WONDERFUL REMINDER OF OUR SELF WORTH!
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question "What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, "Do you really want to know?"
Reluctantly, he said, "Yes."
She began to expound, "As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can he do for me that I can't do for myself."
"I pay my own bills."
"I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter."
"I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?' "
The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.
She quickly corrected his thought & stated, "I am not referring to money."
"I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life. "
He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain.
She said,
When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, "You are asking a lot. She replied, "I'm worth a lot. ""I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need
conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man.I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't
need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for
disaster.I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I
don't need a financial burden.I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.
I am looking for someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive,
I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his
business. I have no problem being submissive... he just has to be worthy. God
made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help
himself."
